Molly Lou Gifts

Hello, hello???

2011-07-31T16:55:00.000-04:00

Hello all! What a long time (again)! So sorry. These last few months have been crazy.

As a short recap, Mini #3 joined us almost two weeks ago and is a perfect little girl that the older minis are crazy about.

We moved (again). We are all adjusting to a new place and Mr.'s new job (again). Wow...all of this is deja vu.

I quit my job so we could move and am now a stay at home mom again.

I have started a new blog, Under this Umbrella. I feel that my life is so full of so many things and I need a fresh start. I hope you will join me over there, www.comeunderthisumbrella.blogspot.com. It is always entertaining, and I'm sure a bit crazy at times.

I look forward to navigating my way to catching up with all of you old friends and making some new ones along the way.

(More mini pictures at the new blog, come on over!)

Did I Fool You?

2011-04-01T07:15:00.001-04:00

The 1st of April. April Fool's Day. Blah. Why on earth is this a "holiday?" I just don't really get the appeal and how it became so wide spread that it is celebrated around the world. I know it isn't an official holiday, but some people think very highly of this day and spend days, weeks, months planning the perfect practical joke. Random Fact: I read that in some countries, the foolishness and jokes are only played until noon and anything after that makes you an April Fool. Feel free to share that around the water cooler today. I don't mean to sound like a total "Scrooge." Is there another term for a grump on this day??? I just wonder how this day became such a COOL thing that everyone had to do it. We have all had to live through the awkward laughs, smiles, good natured "hearty har hars" after someone tells us an "April Fool." I would much rather celebrate World Icecream Day June Pedicure Day September Book Day October Hug Day January Hot Chocolate Day May Tell People What You Really Think Day July Lemonade Stand Day August Shopping Day Feel Free to come up with any others or let's band together on one of the above and turn it in to a world celebrated day like today!!! Have a great day and weekend! Happy Friday and Happy April Fool's Day!

Born to Aggravate?

2011-03-31T06:25:00.004-04:00

There has been a lot of arguing going on with the minis in our house. I truly didn't think that at this age there would be so much of this. People always told me three years was the "perfect" age difference...oxymoron??? My sister and I fought all of the time, but I don't remember it being until we were older and she was just a general pain in the bum. Surprisingly, we don't argue much anymore and the latter is still the same. This is a scene that happened yesterday in our crazy house yesterday. Mini 1: "Stop doing that. You're a baby. Baby, baby, baby, baby!" (Insert evil big brother laugh) Mini 2: "I am not a baby. You are a baby. Mooooooooooooooooooomy, he called me a baby. I am not a baby." (cue the dramatic crying, foot stomping, etc.) Mini 1: "Baby, baby, baby. I am big and you are not. You can't do anything that I can do. Leave me alone. Stop looking at me and go away." Mini 2: "Moooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooomy, Mini #1 is calling me a baby and says I need to go awaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay." (She gets way more dramatic and her southern drawl stretches things much more when she is tired, mad, crying...in other words a lot.) Mini 1: "Stop it, Mini #2. Seriously, no one cares that you are crying. See you are a baby. Now, leave me alone and go somewhere else." Mom: Ignoring the screeching and dramatic tears. I am in my happy place. Children? I don't think I have any children. More screaming ensues and I am pretty sure that I hear bodily harm happening. Snap back to reality. Mom: "What is going on in here. Stop arguing. Seriously, what are you even arguing about? You were playing so nicely together a few minutes ago. And stop the teasing, Mini #1. I hope you didn't just hit your sister. We have talked about this and you know it isn't nice to tease and you are to never hit your sister. You, missy also know exactly what you are doing to aggravate your brother and we don't hit our brother either. Do we need a time out?" Mini 1: "Seriously Mom, she was born to aggravate me just like you say Dad was born to aggravate you. I can't take it." Score 1 for Mini #1. Ahhhhhhhh, life is grand!!! Happy Thursday.

Wordless Wednesday~You are Welcome and Yum-O!

2011-03-30T07:57:00.000-04:00

Pity Party of One

2011-03-29T20:00:00.002-04:00

What do you do when you are tired, stressed, snotty, angry, and just plain want to scream???? You put the minis to bed a smidge early and you drown your sorrows in a carton of ice cream and watch mindless television. It's truly amazing how calories and television can make most things better.

Wordless Wednesday~A Hot Mess Diva with a Domestic Attitude

2011-03-23T07:47:00.001-04:00

Picking Favorites

2011-03-22T08:53:00.001-04:00

I don't have a favorite child. I really don't.

However, if we are all honest, there are fleeting and some lingering moments when one child or another may be first in line to the throne in your mind.

Case in point:

At Target yesterday, Mini #1 says

"Target is the best place in the whole world. I think I should have my birthday party here. All of my friends could come, we could play with the toys, run around and see the cool stuff, get an Icee, and maybe we could even sleep over here."

This conversation is happening while an adorable blonde headed little girl dressed in a smocked orange South Carolina Palmetto dress is flailing on the floor screaming because she cannot get a second pair of gold glitter "Dorothy" shoes. I quietly ignored her and listened to the boy as I searched for her mother.

Score 1 for Mini #1.

Happy Tuesday.

Mom Jeans Next?

2011-03-21T10:59:00.002-04:00

Ever have moments in your life where you take that imaginary step back and wonder "how did I get here?" "Is this really my life?"

I have been having those a lot lately for a whole basket of reasons. Obviously with two minis and another on the way, there are several changes in our horizon as we prepare to be a family of five.

I love my life, but there are parts of me and certain moments in a day that I wish I could turn back the clock.

I remember being that girl still in college, carefree and cool, no money, but no bills, and able to jump at a moment's notice.

Or that girl that was engaged and planning a knock out wedding that would be talked about for years. Mr. Molly Lou and I had that wedding...there was nothing extravagent, but it was the BEST time and one that all of our friends and family gathered for and had the party of the next few years.

Or the girl that was pregnant with mini #1 reading all of the pregnancy books, planning how I would mother this young boy, and then falling in love more than I ever imagined possible and turning my world completely upside down.

Fast forwarding to present day, that girl is the mother of two, exhausted almost as much she is crazy, saying things that she swore she would never repeat after cringing hearing her mother say those dreaded sayings and ramblings for years, and now pregnant with a third child and doing the thing she SWORE she would never ever do. NEVER.

For months we have been talking about it. For months we have been debating. For months we have been avoiding. For months we have been looking at other options.

The inevitable happened yesterday.

That girl became the owner of a minivan. A MINIVAN!

The Molly Lous are now rocking a Toyota Sienna minivan.

Mr. and my two best friends have promised to stage an intervention if I start to wear mom jeans and put a scrunchie in my hair in public.

Last night as we were driving away in the minivan, I had a life changing moment. I can grow to love this and this amazing life Mr. and I have worked hard to create.

I will drive a minivan daily for years to come. Chauffering my minis to school, sports, practice, dining, vacations, etc. I will grow to love the space, the ease of loading/unloading, and the ability to cart as many clowns, I mean minis as I can cram in to the back of the "rocketship." (Mini #1 loves it and refers to it as his rocketship.)

I am ok with it and will embrace this new chapter in our life and I look forward to all of the future holds.

Anyone want a ride?

Have a great day!

**There is nothing wrong with a minivan and I see plenty of cool moms driving around in one and have many friends including many of you who rock one on a daily basis. I'll take pointers and tips from you. Also, these rocketships have come a long way since my parents large green minivan that I learned to drive in, took my driver's test in, and carted around my sister and her friends in and getting groceries for my mom in exchange for having a car to drive and almost free gas.

Spring is Here...

2011-03-18T14:11:00.003-04:00

Well in two days it will be.

There is no doubting it, it is hot here and feels more like a summer day.

Here is what we have been doing just about ALL day.

(The boy is much to fast and could care less about his picture being taken...he has places to go. The girl picked out her own outfit and insisted on wearing it, even on a trip on the bicycle. I guess she believes "a girl must always look her best." She did at one point go inside to get her purse as well and attach it to her handle bars.)

Have a great, great weekend! Happy Spring!

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2011-03-17T14:44:00.003-04:00

"Why should you never iron a 4-leaf clover?"

You don't want to press your luck!

That joke was courtesy of Mini #1

St. Patrick's Day is an enchanted time - a day to begin transforming winter's dreams into summer's magic. ~Adrienne Cook

Have a great day!

Fast Forward

2011-03-15T14:31:00.003-04:00

Have you ever read Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day?

I love that story and always loved doing activities and lessons with it when I taught second grade. The kids always laughed at it.

I am having one of those days.

It is pouring down rain, everyone is in a grumpy mood, parents complained about EVERYTHING at school today, and it is just one of those days when nothing seems to be "working quite right."

(Side note: carpool may take longer since it is POURING down rain and everyone wants to go through carpool so they don't have to get out. If you don't want to wait in your dry car then feel free to walk in and pick up your child just as you are welcome to do ANY OTHER DAY!)

I digress. Do you ever wish you could have a fast forward button for life. I have never wanted to wish my life away of the lives of my children while they are children, but a fast forward button for even a few hours would be PERFECTION!

I could fast forward the next few hours to bedtime. I could stop at the time when I am cuddling the minis and reading stories and then proceed with the rest of the evening and my own bedtime as usual.

This would fast forward the laundry, the argument that is happening right now where a very tired Mini #2 is miserable and crying or having a fit about everything, but refuses to take a nap, cooking and cleaning up of dinner, etc.

I wouldn't want to abuse this fast forward button priviledge and would promise to use it wisely. I also know that this shouldn't be cheap and am willing to pay a pretty penny for it and bet many others would as well.

I guess I also wish there was a rewind button so I could go back to those times where life is just as it should or those times and moments that have already passed in the minis short lives that I will never be able to get back.

Would you fast forward?

Spring Forward?

2011-03-14T07:22:00.002-04:00

I totally, completely dislike the time change. There certainly is nothing "springing forward" in my mind this morning.

It messes with my schedule, it messes with the minis schedule, and it REALLY messes with my motivation in the mornings.

The total pitch-blackness in the mornings certainly does not make me want to crawl out of bed and get motivated to start my week. I already have to get up early enough and the sun slowly starting to come up as I meander through my morning routines was helpful, comforting.

This morning I REALLY didn't want to get out of bed. I would have paid a lot of money and even considered cutting off a limb to be able to sleep without an alarm clock this morning.

Oh, Mr. Sun, where are you? Are you coming to be my company when everyone else is asleep and help motivate me with your shining rays to get this Monday started? The birds are even sleeping later now that it is sooooooooooooo dark.

Mr. Sun doesn't come out for me, it is too busy screwing up my evening routine with the minis.

The endless questions last night and those that are sure to continue at least for the next few weeks and probably until the end of school when routines relax a bit of

"Why do I have to take a bath and get ready for bed? It is still light out side!"

"Ooooooook. I will take a shower, but can I ride my bike after I get finished?"

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I know that time will come in late June where I will love the extra hours to be in the pool and watch the minis catch lightning bugs and eat ice cream or popsicles so late in to the summer evening.

Actually...notsomuch. I will be to the point of explosion in pregnancy and it will be 156 degrees outside.

Happy Monday!

Girls Rule, Boys Drool

2011-03-11T17:34:00.002-05:00

It's official!

It's a girl! Mini #3 will switch the power in the house and tip the scales for the girls to outnumber the boys.

Mr. made the tech show us three different times to "prove" that it was a girl and then explain exactly how she determined that. Not his smartest or most shining moment!

Mini #1 is better today than last night over the reality of having ANOTHER sister in the house. I am nervous about another girl after having Mini #2, however, I am thrilled to have two little girls to play with each other and grow up to be as close as my sister and I.

Everything else looks perfect and on or before July 18th, we will be a family of 5!

Happy weekend!

Who Will Be in the Majority?

2011-03-10T05:55:00.002-05:00

Who will win...boys or girls?

Will it be a Jack or a Cate?

Today we find out whether this little surprise is a boy or girl!

More importantly, I need to know if I will be outnumbered by testosterone or if I will go gray and become even more insane due to an adorable little girl filled with so much attitude and "style" like her older sister.

Mini #1 is adament that it is a boy. To quote him exactly "God knows that I already have a sister and that I don't need another one." (If this baby is a girl, we have a lot of work to do to convince Mini #1 that it is not the end of the world and to convince myself that I indeed have enough energy and patience to raise a second Mini #2!)

I mentioned that this pregnancy was a huge surprise and it sure was. Mini #1 has been praying for a brother since the summer. Clearly he and God worked up a little plan that the modern marvel of birth control couldn't quite compete with.

Obviously, this is a gift from God, but even more so since: We weren't trying, on birth control, my husband doesn't even live at home 5 of 7 days a week, one of those two days we are together, chances are I don't like him, we already have two children running around that leave me completed exhausted at the end of the day, and with the very small window of opportunity each month, this baby is clearly conceived by immaculate conception! KIDDING!

I am nervous and excited about the appointment today. Fingers crossed...

Happy Thursday! Have a great day!

Wordless Wednesday~All the Toys and We Choose Naked in a Box

2011-03-09T07:03:00.001-05:00

This and That...

2011-03-08T07:47:00.001-05:00

How happy I am to be back. I have missed so much of blogging and all of you wonderful and talented women. So much to do...many of you will be happy you missed the mundane and daily ramblings of the crazy Molly Lou house.

Let's just do a quick recap over the past few months and beginning of the Molly Lou family's 2011:

*I got a few emails about this last night, so we shall start with the fact that I am pregnant. AHHHHHHHH...this was a huge surprise and one that I was so not ready for. We found out in December that we would be a family of five sometime in July, 2011. More on this later, but for now, just call me Myrtle.

*January 3, Mr. Molly Lou left his company that he had been with since interning in college, the one that moved us all over to start with a new construction company, specializing in nuclear power. Thinks this might mean that we all live under the same roof?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...he now lives in Charlotte, NC so is still two hours away. He has a teeny tiny apartment right uptown, so we use it more like a hotel room and visit him every other week. This was a great move for him, personally and professionally. He loves his new job and is surrounded by good people and ones that appreciate his work experience and what he has to offer.

*Mini #1 and Mini #2 are still adorable, insane, too smart, and keep me going constantly. It truly is never a dull moment around this house. I could write a whole book on Mini #2 "isms" over the past two months.

*Mini #2 is potty-trained and we are both still alive and like each other most days. Woohoo! However, she takes "don't get your panties in a wad" to a whole new level.

*Mini #1 is registered for kindergarten. How is it possible? He can't understand that it is still 5 months away before he actually gets to go. As smart as he is getting, perhaps he should skip right on to middle school. He amazes me and more often than we will admit, Mr. and I have gone back and Googled things he tells us and he has ALWAYS been right.

*I am still director of the preschool. The last few months of 2010 were awful with certain "governing bodies" of the church and things that made my life very difficult. I had never experienced so mucn unChristianlike like behavior in my life, especially ones in a church. It has gotten much better and a new Council, etc. has taken over. My enrollment has hit a new high in the 30 year history of the preschool so I must be doing something right.

*My great uncle, who was like my grandfather passed away suddenly in February. This was a huge shock and huge loss to me and some days I still struggle with the fact that I will not get to see his face, receive a hug, and that my children will really not get to experience all that he did with me and for me throughout my life.

However, we took a road trip, 9 people in a 12 passenger van to Illinois for his funeral. Picture it: Me, Mr., Mini #1, Mini #2, my mom, dad, sister, and her husband all together for 15 hours driving each way in the car that doesn't include potty breaks, restaurants, hotels, etc. We did this entire trip over the course of 5 days. That has REALITY SHOW written all over it and I could still kick myself that I have no video documentation. Every shudder and thought you are having is probably all true and then some.

Your turn...fill me in! Happy Tuesday!

Hello, hello, is this thing on?

2011-03-07T18:11:00.002-05:00

Hello out there. Anyone still around? Are all of my friends still blogging or have they moved on to some new found technology that I am not cool enough to know about since it has been OVER TWO MONTHS SINCE I BLOGGED!

I am hanging my head low as I apologize for being the World's Worst Blogger. If that was an award, I would win hands down. (Someone should make one of those buttons and start passing around.)

I am so sorry. Life has been so crazy and has handed us some big and small surprises.

I need to blog, I love to blog, and I miss all of you. I truly do feel a piece of me has been missing the past few months and I am ready to take it all back!

I can't wait to catch up with you and share with you thing that have been happening on this end.

Until next time...

It's Here...

2010-12-25T07:04:00.000-05:00

It's here. It's here. It's really here...

I wish you all the happiest day full of love and laughter with those you hold dear. I hope Santa was good to you and yours and you have a glorious CHRISTmas!

Merry Christmas Friends...

2010-12-24T11:59:00.002-05:00

Merry Christmas sweet friends! I cannot believe the time is almost here to celebrate the birth of Jesus and Christmas.

The presents have been bought, wrapped, sent, and placed under the tree.

The stockings and trimmings are hung.

The groceries have been bought and some prepared for holiday feasts.

The cookies and holiday baking happened, leaving a flour cloud and some oh so yummy baked goods.

The elf has come each day and given his report back to the big guy on the minis behavior.

The nativity scene has been set and the stories have been read.

The holiday clothing has been cleaned and ready.

The carols have been sung and continue to be sung ALL. DAY. LONG. Some with some interesting and creative new lyrics.

The family is on their way.

Christmas is really almost here.

I wish you all a VERY Merry Christmas and hope you get to spend it with those you love most.

The Big Letter

2010-12-07T09:43:00.000-05:00

It is our first year writing our letter to Jolly Ol' St. Nick or Santa Claus or Kris Kringle. We have been working on this for a while and have finally finished and have put in the mail to the North Pole. I hope the mail service to the North Pole is better than the regular USPS or else Santa might not even receive by next Christmas.

Mini #1 has been cutting things out of catalogs and magazines for a while. This weekend we began the task of writing the actual letter. He wrote everything and it took us a few tries to ensure the letters were written correctly.

Me: "Dear Santa...D-E-A-R Sssss (what says Ssssss)-A-N-T-A."

Mini #1: "This is going to take a while"

Me: "You're doing a great job. Let's say Hi." (He writes it.)

"How about writing I love you."

Mini #1:(Complete BLANK expression.) "Why? Why I love you? I don't know Santa."

Me: "Sure you do. Well, let's write something kind. "

Mini #1: "Thank you. That is kind and nice manners."

Me: "That is perfect." (We go through all the motions of writing the words thank you.)

Mini #1: (Pasting the cutouts on to his letter. One of which was a new dining room table set that he says is for me. Wish he would have included diamond earrings instead, but it is the thought that counts.)

"I don't know why you wanted me to write I Love You. I don't know if I love him. He isn't in my family."

Me: "Santa does love you. He watches over us and loves us all."

Mini #1:"I don't think so, Mom."

5 years ago today...

2010-12-06T21:13:00.000-05:00

December 6, 2005 is the day that changed my life forever. It is the day that I welcomed by first child, a beautiful baby boy. It is the day that I became a mom!

Today is my sweet little boy's 5th birthday! I can't believe that my little boy is getting so big. I am so proud of him and so honored to be his mom!

I am really having a hard time with him being 5...FIVE! It is so "old." FIVE is like a big milestone and there is no turning back to being a baby. I have noticed such a change in him over the past month or so. In true family fashion, we have been celebrating this big day for several days...several celebrations and activites with family and friends lead to several birthday desserts which is PERFECT for Mini #1!

5 Things that I love about my 5 year old:

1. I love the way he smiles and gets so excited about the smallest things. He has such an innocent and complete joy that fills him. He has an infectious smile and laugh.

2. I love his outward shows of affection. He will randomly hug and kiss me throughout the day, come up to tell me he loves me, and even tells me that I am the greatest mom. (all without me asking or bribery.) It warms my heart and makes me love him so much more. I am fearful that in the coming years these will become fleeting moments, so I need to savor them now.

3. I love the way he thinks he is the best at just about anything he tries. Have you ever seen that commercial where the little boy bombs in his soccer game and his parents are all worried that he will be sad and get him a treat and then the boys comes over...parents are ready to console and the little boy shouts "I WAS AWESOME." That is Mini #1. Let's just say that he is not the next David Beckham, Tom Brady, or Mark McGuire, but he enjoys giving everything a try and is actually quite the whiz on the bicycle.

4. I love his love for reading. He is so smart...way smarter than I am. He is always reading, wants to know more, and could sit for hours reading to himself. Mr. and I have already caught ourselves googling things more than once in order to be able to answer a question or explain more about something to him. I am fearful about the years to come...I might need to go back to school to get another degree in hopes of still being ahead of him in a few years.

5. I love the way he plays with his sister. He can aggravate her (she sure knows which buttons to push on him!) and can not always be the most kind, but he does love her and the moments that they share now, the moments playing together are priceless. He will also help her do things that she is either too short to do or just not old enough to do. He will hold her hand while we are walking and will hug her until she screams while trying to squirm away. He is a big brother!!

Happy, Happy Birthday sweet boy! I love you more than you will ever know.

Giving Thanks...

2010-11-25T08:50:00.000-05:00

Happy Thanksgiving friends! I am so thankful for all of those in my life including all of the amazing people I have met in Blogland.

I know I spend way too much time complaining and certainly not enough time THANKING GOD for all I have. I am overwhelmed with the amount of love and blessings in my life and need to dwell on those gifts and blessing each day.

I wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving and hope you all enjoy a weekend filled with love, laughter, yummy food, and lots of time together.

Happy Turkey Day!

Blowin' Out the Candles

2010-11-24T08:20:00.000-05:00

Today is my birthday.

I will be blowin' out a lot of candles. I have much to wish for, much to be thankful for, and much to look forward to.

I will spend the day with those I love the most...I am so thankful to have such a wonderful husband, two awesome minis, and a wonderful family in my parents and my sister and her husband.

I hope you will get a slice of cake or a cupcake today and celebrate with me. I am thankful for each of my friends and truly wish I could spend the day with you guys laughing and chatting the day away.

Have a great day!

I Heart New York

2010-11-23T15:26:00.003-05:00

I BIG PUFFY HEART New York! I am not shy about my love affair with this city. I would live there, I would go there for just about every vacation, and I have even briefly thought about naming one of my children Manhattan...ok, that might take it a bit far, but you get the idea. However, the Beckhams have a son named Brooklyn, so it can't be quite the most terrible, horrible, no good, very bad idea I know my husband and mother are thinking right about now.

I just got back from spending three glorious days, much too short of a trip there with my Mom and sister in celebration of my birthday. An amazing and AWESOME birthday gift. We shopped, we walked, we ate, we saw, we walked, we saw, we shopped, we walked, we briefly slept, we laughed, we people watched, we walked, we oohed and ahhed, we walked, we talked, and we had the best time together.

We became best friends with Tina Fey, we at least that is how I remembered it. I got to drool over my somewhat weird HUGE crush on Matt Lauer and he may or may not have met eyes with me in a glance and fell in love. (I mean not that I would even dream of that since Mr. Molly Lou is the perfect man.)

My mom who had not been since she was a small child loved it, and I fell in love even more with "the city that never sleeps." I had never been in the fall, but totally understand why people love Autumn in New York. It is amazing and I enjoyed seeing the preparations for Christmas.

The minis survived their weekend with Dad and the only sign of wear and tear is poor Mini #2's face. She face planted and has a beat up nose and a big bruise and scratches on her forehead. The children seemed well adjusted and still healthy. The mess wasn't too much and Mr. seem to be as sane as when I left too.

I can't wait to go through our pictures. Thanks to my mom and sister for going with me on this wonderful and memorable trip!

Hope you all had a great day!

Snapshot Saturday

2010-11-13T10:31:00.002-05:00

Here are a few snapshots from the photography session last weekend that I was so worried about. Out of 2364 pictures, we did get a few ones and I am pleased to say that I was able to get three pictures for our Christmas cards. Some of the shots were quite funny.

On a side note, we spent 7 hours in the Children's Emergency Room with Mini #2 last night. She is hopefully fine now, but this virus (we think) for almost two weeks that got worse caused her to need a lot of fluids. Tests have been run and so far everything has come back normal. We were so incredibly proud of her...she was such a big girl. Everyone was so kind to us and truly so helpful. Please just send up a small prayer that we are on the mend. We are thankful that this is the extent of the illness of our children and know how truly blessed we are.

Happy Saturday...have a great weekend!

Wordless Wednesday~O.M.G. I need about 21 of these today!

2010-11-10T07:12:00.000-05:00

Tuesday's Tidbit

2010-11-09T08:44:00.004-05:00

My tidbit for the day...BUY STOCK IN LYSOL!! The Molly Lou house has a cloud of Lysol vapors...you have to crawl military style on the ground to avoid the vapors.

Mini #2 is still sick. Oh goodness, how I am over cleaning up bodily fluids exiting the body in a disgusting manner. Poor thing, I feel so bad for her. She is quite pitiful, but still has it in her to fight with her brother. (Not that he goes easy on her either. He certainly knows her buttons to push and he was sure to rub it in her face that he got to go to school today, while she had to stay home with mean old mom who wouldn't let her puke on her friends.)

After I buy that stock in Lysol, I will transport myself here...sipping something yummy and only hearing the water and the voices in my head. Care to join me?

Happy Tuesday. Have a great day!

Sick day...

2010-11-08T10:37:00.003-05:00

I had this great post ready to type today. One that would humor you and make you wish for more, but I am too tired to charm the pants off of you all today.

Mini #2 is sick with the wretched stomach bug that seems to be running rampant around preschools, churches, schools, grocery stores, parks, restaurants...pretty much any place where they could be copious amounts of children and germs.

Or perhaps she is getting back at me for making her stay clean, not fight, and attempt to smile for all pictures during our family picture session on Saturday. (Which I think were fantastic. I have seen 11 as a sneak peek and am very excited.)

I guess we all need sick days every once in a while. I hate that she is sick, but the extra cuddle time in between bouts of sickness is worth it. Mini #1 is loving the extra television time he is getting too.

The long to-do list and school list I had to for today will have to wait along with the housework I had planned to do this afternoon. The mountain of laundry can wait too, except for those "christened" Mini #2 sickness ones.

Perhaps the chilly day and extra coffee I will get to drink today will make up for it and perhaps during one of her napping spots like now I can watch some daytime television. There really is a silver lining to just about everything, isn't there.

Happy Monday! Hope you all are well and enjoying this beautiful fall day.

Picture Day

2010-11-06T07:23:00.001-04:00

So the Molly Lou family, Molly Lou sister and her hubby, and Molly Lou Mom and Dad are going for a photo session this morning...think Vogue wardrobe department, hair and makeup teams, fans blowing my hair, and the perfect little children with their "acting coaches" ready to snap those perfect photos.

Right. And we snap back to reality.

We are using a really awesome photographer and going to a field, old train tracks, and a few other hot spots. The only bad part is that it is supposed to be a balmy 35 degrees when the flashes start going. I am excited about it, but have a few small items that I am praying for.

*I am praying Mr. doesn't smile like Chandler did in photographs on Friends. We have been practicing.

(For a man that has to be the center of attention pretty much all of the time, can make friends with a wall, and is always the "social chair" on any project he goes to manages to be camera shy at the worst times. We announced our engagement on The Today Show and he forgot his name when they asked him. Serious, 5 second pause before he could answer.)

*I am praying the Minis manage to smile, not fight, shed no tears, don't have a constant stream of nasal drainage, and manage to keep their clothes clean.

*I am praying that I can look as thin as possible...who knows how well this photographer can work her magic in the touch ups. I am also praying that my hair stays straight and as good as I can get it. That is a good thing about the CHILLY temperatures...there won't be 100% humidity.

*I am praying that my entire family can look as normal and blissfully happy as possible. What I truly mean is that the photographs can capture just how normal and blissfully happy we truly are as a family unit.

I just need a few good Christmas shots and we can call it a day. :)

Kidding...mostly. Fingers crossed.

Happy Saturday.

What have I gotten myself in to?

2010-11-05T07:45:00.000-04:00

I often look at Mini #2 and wonder what in the world I have gotten myself in to. She is cute, she is funny, she can be sweet, she can be loving, and some days she even pretends to like me, but she can be a pistol. There really is no better word to describe her.

I often worry about what she will be like as a teenager and last night I had the full view of all that I have to look forward to. I immediately started praying and also left a message for my doctor to get me some good drugs ASAP.

Picture it:

Last night, I am cooking dinner and in the middle of playing Army men and also trying to ensure that Mini #2 doesn't draw on the furniture with the marker she is running around with.

Me: "Mini #2* come here, please."

Mini #2: I am going to play a little game with Mom. (blatantly ignores me. I KNOW she hears me.)

Me: "Mini #2, please come here."

Mini #2: I will really tick Mom off and continue to ignore her.

Me: "PLEASE COME HERE MINI #2!!!!!!!"

Mini #2: (slight eyeroll) "It's Princess Mini #2."

Are you kidding me???? She is two years old. What have I gotten myself in to???????

Happy Friday!

(And yes, she did in fact walk around Starbucks like this after she took off her dress. And yes, that is chocolate on her face and on the white turtleneck. She has an attitude and is a slob.)

Pink & Green Thursdays~I Heart New York

2010-11-04T07:58:00.000-04:00

In about two weeks, I will be dancing around the Big Apple with my mom and sister for a few blissful days of fun. New York is my favorite place in the world, Mr. and I were engaged there and I just find the city to be magical. I am so excited about a few days with just my mom and sister...it will be the best birthday gift.

For this week's Pink and Green Thursday, fall in love with the city and get Frank Sinatra singing in the background...

Happy Thursday!

The Core

2010-11-02T08:26:00.004-04:00

Often when you think of the word core, you think of the inedible center of a fruit such as an apple.

Lately, I have been thinking of my core. When you look up the 567 definitions of the word core, one of them is

core (noun): a basic, essential, or enduring part; the essential meaning; the inmost or most intimate part

Then, I saw in a magazine that I read it defined as

your inner self, including your temperament, life experiences, emotions, passions, and potential.

How fitting! I feel that I have lost part of my core recently. I know I have kind of "fell off the face of the Blogger earth" lately and how much I have missed it.

I have let life get in the way, I have let part of myself go. I took a job a few months ago, why I never really blogged about it, I'm not sure. When I took the job, there were some obstacles and I guess I was nervous on what I would be able to do. I am the director of a preschool now. The school is thriving and my children are happy there and learning so much. I do like it, but some days I am so completely overwhelmed with work, children, housework and chores, church responsibilities, Molly Lou Gifts shop duties, and the list goes on.

There are some days that I cry at the end of the day when Mini #2 won't go to sleep because I am so tired and I also have about 2356 things that I need to do before I can lay my head down.

When I decided to take this job, we were under the impression that Mr. was going to be able to come home and work out of the home office. That would be so great...we could be a family of 4 again every night, we could eat together, read books together before bedtime, play together, and share the nightly routines. There would be another set of hands each night to help bathe, read, play, cook dinner and clean up (his clean up hands have never been stellar, but there would be another set of hands to do something while I cleaned up at least.) That didn't happen and Mr. is on another project that he does enjoy now at the same site, but still away all week for another year.

I feel like as a mother, I immediately shared a part of my core with these two. I want to share my life experiences, passions, and emotions with them to help mold them in to the person that God intends for them to be. Somewhere in the process though, I think I forgot about my core and certainly forgot to grow that and foster my inner self. By doing so, I know I will be a better mom, wife, and friend.

Blogging is a passion because it allows me to be a part of this wonderful community of people that have entered my life for many reasons. I need this...this is an outlet for me and one of such great support and comfort.

You all help me cultivate my seed, my core for the rest of my life.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

2010-10-31T10:57:00.003-04:00

Hope you all are having a "spooktacular" day filled with lots of treats!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

Wordless Wednesday~Mad About Minis

2010-10-06T08:17:00.001-04:00

Happy Birthday Mr.

2010-10-04T20:57:00.001-04:00

Today my Mr. is a year older. The jury is still out on the whole year wiser bit, but he is confident is many years wiser today.

Don't you love this photo of he and the minis in his birthday gift. That's right folks, we now have a huge leather recliner in our home. I fought it as hard as I could. We had many marital "wars" over something like this invading our home, but in the end, I surrendered and he now triumphantly sits in his "throne."Also, I tried to get a good picture of the three of them all day in that beast of a chair. However, let's just say that it didn't work out. This is the best I could get...just look at Mini #1, he is certainly thrilled to be posing. This is at the end of the day, baths had, children and daddy tired (and a tad grumpy)...this is our life! And in true, Molly Lou household style, we had been celebrating this birthday for about 4 days, so we were "birthdayed" out.

He also received some handcrafted mini art: a painted frame, a painted fish on canvas, and birthday cards. The handpainted frame by both of the children included the sun, grass, and ME flying through the air. It was something to see!

Happy, Happy Birthday Mr. I love you more than you will ever know and look forward to all this next year has in store.

Wordless Wednesday~Caffeine Love

2010-09-29T07:04:00.001-04:00

2 years ago...

2010-09-28T06:38:00.001-04:00

730 days ago, 17,531 hours ago, 1,051,897 minutes ago you entered in to my world and everything changed for the better...

You showed me from the very beginning that you march to your own beat and I needed to settle in and enjoy the ride.

"When we asked for a daughter we were sent a princess." - Sally Huss

"She will fill our lives with sunshine... And our hearts with love." - Author Unknown

"Her smile beams like sunshine, which fills our hearts with love." - Birgit B.

(Check out the outfit, or lack there of, but the stylish Snow White heels and another pair in her hand. Shoes really are the only thing a girl needs.)

"Little girls are just angels who haven't yet spread their wings." - Author Unknown
"Little girls dance their way into your heart, whirling on the tips of angel wings, scattering gold dust & kisses in our paths." - Author Unknown

"A little girl can be sweeter (and badder) oftener than anyone else in the world. she can jitter around, and stomp, and make funny noises that frazzle your nerves yet just when you open your mouth she stands there demure with that special look in her eyes. A girl is innocence playing in the mud, beauty standing on its head, and motherhood dragging a doll by the foot."- Alan Beck

Happy 2nd Birthday SWEET GIRL!

I love you more than you will ever know...

I can't wait to see what the next year has in store.

Princess Wand

2010-09-27T20:17:00.000-04:00

It is the eve of Mini #2's second birthday. With this looming milestone has brought us a PRINCESS. She is all things princess and now loves the dress up and has heightened her love for shoes and jewelry.

Princess Mini #2 never ceases to amaze me and the events at the grocery store this evening solidify my evidence that she really doesn't like me.

(It is my time of the month...UGH. Totally puts me feeling lovely all of the time. Too much information I know, but important to the story.)

We were cruising along the grocery store this evening trying to pick up a few things, Mini #1 is reading a book and totally in another world. Mini #2 is dancing and bobbing along and then decides to reach over and pull out a tampon from my purse. I quickly take it and hand her a toy to play with. A few minutes later, I am looking at cake mix to purchase to make the little darling's cupcakes for school today.

She says "Mommy look. A princess wand."

She has the tampon again, not so discreetly WAVING it around. This is also not a deserted aisle either so there were witnessing to my daughter's "Princess wand."

53 shades of red darker, I grab the wand, tell her that is not a toy, and to please read the book I am handing her.

In true Princess fashion, she flails, cries, and screams "I want my Princess wand, Mommy!"

See, I told you...she hates me.

Happy Monday.

Pink and Green Thursday~Falling for Fall

2010-09-23T07:23:00.000-04:00

Happy Thursday! Oh, how I love Fall and today marks it's introduction. The leaves, the chill in the air (hopefully soon), the pumpkins, the cinnamon and nutmeg smells, the cozy evenings, the fall foods, the mums...

And of course, we can't forget the return of the Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Latte. I had one yesterday and can't think of a better way to welcome the autumnal season. It really is the little things in life...

Don't forget to hop over to Trish's blog to join in the Pink and Green Thursday fun. She always has the most amazing and inspiring photographs. Please forgive the lack of pink and/or green from this week's post...fall isn't too pink and green friendly. :)

Wordless Wednesday~Dress Up

2010-09-22T06:57:00.000-04:00

A Princess and what his father doesn't know about dress up time...

Tuesday's Tidbit~Apple Love

2010-09-21T07:32:00.000-04:00

Red, green, yellow...Granny Smith, Red Delicious, Gala...how I love apples and with Fall quickly approaching in just a few short days, Apples are on my mind! Fall is my favorite and just sitting here, I can smell the cinnamon goodness that fills the air and imagine the leaves falling, crisp mornings and evenings, and pumpkins galore.

For this month's Tuesday Tidbit, I found three apple recipes that I had to share. I have already made two of them. We are hitting the apple orchard Friday, so there will be even more apple possibilities. Happy Tuesday!

Apple Napoleons

1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
6 tablespoons sugar
1 sheet frozen puff pastry, thawed
All-purpose flour, for work surface
2 tablespoons unsalted butter
4 small Granny Smith apples, peeled, cored, and cut lengthwise into 1/3-inch-thick wedges
2 cups sweetened whipped cream

Directions
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. In a small bowl, combine cinnamon and sugar. Place pastry on a lightly floured work surface. Sprinkle evenly with 2 tablespoons cinnamon mixture. Carefully roll out to 1/8 inch thick. Cut out eight 3 inch squares, and place on a parchment- lined baking sheet. Cover with more parchment and another baking sheet. Chill in freezer until firm, about 15 minutes.
Bake pastry in oven until crisp and lightly browned, about 30 minutes. Remove top parchment and baking sheet. Transfer, with bottom parchment, to a wire rack, and let cool.
Meanwhile, in a medium saucepan, melt butter over medium-high heat until foam subsides. Add apples; cook, stirring occasionally, until golden brown, about 7 minutes. Add remaining cinnamon mixture. Cook until apples are tender but not falling apart. Let cool completely. To assemble, top the pastry with whipped cream then apples; repeat with another layer of each. Serve immediately.

Apple Crumb Pie

1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour (spooned and leveled), plus more for rolling
6 tablespoons unsalted butter, room temperature
1/4 cup packed light-brown sugar
3/4 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
4 pounds Granny Smith apples (8 to 10)
1 cup granulated sugar
1 cup raisins
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

Pie Crust (see recipe below)

Directions
Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Make crumb topping: In a medium bowl, combine 1 cup flour, butter, brown sugar, and 1/4 teaspoon salt. Work with fingers until large clumps form; freeze.
On a lightly floured piece of wax paper or parchment paper, roll dough into a 14-inch circle. Carefully fit into a 9-inch deep-dish pie plate, gently lowering dough into bottom and sides of pie plate without stretching (you will have a 2-inch overhang all around). Refrigerate.
Place lemon juice in a large bowl. Peel, core, and slice apples 1/8 inch thick, transferring them to the bowl as you work. Add granulated sugar, raisins, cinnamon, remaining 1/4 cup flour, and remaining 1/2 teaspoon salt; toss to combine. Transfer apple mixture to pie crust, pressing in firmly. Fold dough overhang over filling, pleating it as you work your way around pie; press dough firmly against filling.
Bake 45 minutes, then sprinkle apple filling with crumb topping. Continue to bake until golden and bubbling, 30 to 45 minutes more. Cool at least 6 hours before serving.

Apple Butternut Squash Soup

1 tablespoon unsalted butter
1 medium onion, diced
1 butternut squash (about 2 pounds), peeled, seeded, and chopped
4 red or golden apples, peeled, cored, and chopped, plus 1 apple, finely diced and tossed in lemon juice, for garnish (optional)
2 teaspoons coarse salt
1 1/2 teaspoons ground cumin
1/2 teaspoon ground coriander
1/2 teaspoon ground ginger
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
2 cups homemade or store-bought low-sodium chicken or vegetable stock
2 1/2 cups water, plus more if needed
1 jalapeno chile, thinly sliced, for garnish (optional)
Sour cream, for garnish (optional)

Directions
Melt butter in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add onion; cook, stirring occasionally, until it begins to soften, about 4 minutes. Add squash, and cook, stirring occasionally, until soft, about 10 minutes.
Add apples, salt, cumin, coriander, ginger, cayenne, black pepper, stock, and the water (just enough to cover). Bring to a boil. Reduce to a simmer, and cook until vegetables are very soft, about 30 minutes.
Puree in batches in a food processor or blender until smooth, and return to saucepan. Heat over low, thinning with more water if necessary. To serve, ladle into shallow bowls; garnish with diced apples, jalapeno slices, and sour cream if desired.

Baby Shower Fever

2010-09-20T06:41:00.004-04:00

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a great weekend and are ready to start the week! I can't believe fall will be here this week.

This weekend, along with three other girls I hosted a baby shower for my best friend and former roommate from college. She is having a little girl in November that I am beyond excited to meet.

Kristy is Mini #2's (who will be 2 next week...yikes) godmother and will be an amazing mother herself. We had a lovely time of food, adorable and tiny outfits and monograms, other useful and interesting gifts, girl chatter, and just plain ol' baby shower fun.

I felt like Martha...I made the favors. Chocolate dipped pretzels with pink and green chocolate drizzled over them. The tags were scalloped circles with with little one's initial on the front and a quote with the baby shower date on the back and coordinating green ribbon. They were a hit and I can't wait to make them again.

I officially have BABY FEVER again. I am hoping this will ease slightly when I get to squeeze this little bundle in just a few short weeks, but I am obsessed. My minis are getting so big and sometimes don't like it when I try to swaddle them, make silly, highpitched baby gurgles at them, or give them a bottle instead of their "big guy" or "big girl" cups.

I apologize for my photography skills...they definitely were not my best...I guess I was too busy hosting. :) Have a great day!

Pink & Green Thursday~Dreams

2010-09-15T21:39:00.002-04:00

Happy Thursday dear friends. I used to have dreams and aspirations. I used to dream of being famous, of traveling the world, you get the picture.

Now I just dream of sleeping and laying in bed all day. So in honor of that new dream, I give you Pink and Green Thursday all about lovely beds.

Be sure to hop over to link up and see all the other Pink and Green Fun at the lovely Trish's bit of happiness! Happy Thursday!

Wordless Wednesday~Big Girl Attitude with Red Boots

2010-09-15T07:04:00.000-04:00

Happy Wednesday! I'm back...

Pink & Green Thursday~Kitchen Love

2010-08-19T16:40:00.004-04:00

Happy Thursday friends!! I am obsessed with kitchens. I love to look at them, I love to dream about what my dream kitchen would look like. For this week's Pink & Green Thursday hosted by my sweet friend, Trish, here aresome pink and green kitchens I found.

Join in the fun. Hop over to her blog to show your pink and green Thursday. Have a great day.

Wordless Wednesday~Snippets of Voluntary Affection

2010-08-18T08:02:00.000-04:00

Tuesday's Tidbit-Blueberry Bonanza

2010-08-17T07:59:00.000-04:00

This week's Tuesday Tidbit= YUMMY!!! You all know that blueberries are my favorite and as I feel summer slipping away (even though it is still 113 degrees outside), I need to get all of the blueberries I can get. I found this recipe from the domestic goddess, Martha Stewart. It really is pretty easy. I am not a fan of coconut, so I eliminated it from the almond granola topping.

Enjoy!

Don't forget to enter the Hot Holiday Giveaway. Ends today! Happy Tuesday!

Blueberry Bonanza Bars
Vegetable-oil cooking spray
1/2 cup slivered almonds, toasted
2 cups all-purpose flour
3/4 cup confectioners' sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
3/4 cup (1 1/2 sticks) unsalted butter , cold, cut into pieces
1 large egg
1 large egg yolk
3/4 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups blueberry jam

Almond Granola (see below)

{Almond Granola
2 tablespoons unsalted butter
2 tablespoons honey
1/4 cup packed light-brown sugar
1 1/2 cups old-fashioned rolled oats
1/3 cup slivered almonds
1/4 cup sweetened shredded coconut

Directions
Melt together butter and honey in a small saucepan over low heat. Add sugar; stir until sugar has dissolved, about 2 minutes. Remove from heat. Stir in 2 tablespoons water. Stir together oats, almonds, and coconut in a large bowl. Pour butter mixture over oat mixture; stir until combined. }

Blueberry Bonanza Bar Directions
1. Line a 9-by-13-inch baking dish with foil, allowing a 2-inch overhang. Coat with cooking spray. Set aside.
2. Process almonds in a food processor until finely ground.

3.Add flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt; pulse to combine. Add butter; process until mixture resembles coarse meal.
4. Lightly beat egg, egg yolk, and vanilla in a small bowl. With processor running, add egg mixture; process just until clumps form. Pat dough into bottom of dish; refrigerate until firm and cold, about 30 minutes.
5.Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Prick dough all over with a fork. Bake until edges are golden, about 25 minutes. Let cool on a wire rack.
6. Spread jam over crust; top with granola. Bake until jam is bubbling and granola topping is browned, about 30 minutes.

7. Let cool on wire rack. Lift out, and cut into squares.

From Wild Woman to Little Girl...

2010-08-16T11:14:00.000-04:00

Mini #2 desperately needed a haircut. Some days it curled nicely, other days she was the WILD BEAST (and not just in attitude).

BEFORE

DURING

AFTER

Mini #2 loved getting her locks cut. This experience was much different than when her brother got his first haircut. That experience led to physical restriction, sweat, many tears, and emotional scarring. This little princess is already asking for another haircut.

Don't forget to enter the Hot Holiday Giveaway. The giveaway ends tomorrow. Tell a friend too! Happy Monday!

Snapshot Saturday~Look Who's Rockin' the NEW BIG Bike

2010-08-14T08:21:00.002-04:00

Have a great weekend!

Pink & Green Thursday~Hot Holiday Giveaway

2010-08-12T07:34:00.000-04:00

Happy Pink & Green Thursday everyone. I am back and back for good. A few weeks ago, I posted a lovely Pink and Green Thursday Christmas in July edition and promised a giveaway the next day.

However, I have been a terrible blogger and totally dropped the ball in more ways than one.

I just love the holidays and can't wait for all the holidays have to offer. So better late than never for the Christmas in July Holiday Giveaway.

Happy Christmas in August!

This giveaway is for two (2) $30 gift certificates to Molly Lou Gifts. We are working on adding new products. Do some early holiday shopping, shop for friends, shop for yourself. This is a total treat!

This giveaway will end on August 17, 2010 and the winners will be announced on the 18th.

There are many ways to enter. Each below is a different way to enter. You may enter as many times as you like, but please use separate comments.

1. You MUST follow our blog. Join in the fun now if you haven't already.

2. Tell us your favorite Holiday tradition.

3. Post this giveaway on your blog and link it back here.

4. Follow us on Twitter (www.twitter.com/mollylougifts).

5. Make a purchase from Molly Lou Gifts and receive 20 entries. (Remember, we can giftwrap and ship to your recipient for free with a personalized note from you for free)

Happy Pink & Green Thursday. Remember, this fun was started by Trish at Pink Preppy Lilly Lover. Send her some love now!

Wordless Wednesday~Shine Sweet Lisa

2010-08-11T07:51:00.000-04:00

I know the entire point of Wordless Wednesday is to be well, Wordless, but I felt I needed to share some words today. I apologize for my completely scattered blogging and lack of posting and commenting. To say life has been crazy would be an understatement for me. I will explain more later.

However, yesterday I learned that the sweet and amazing Lisa fromBumpkin on a Swing passed away from a fast and aggressive form of ovarian cancer. Talk about shining...Lisa was a bright star here on Earth and I know she is SHINING down today.

The beautiful and amazing Trish from Pink Preppy Lilly Lover had such a close friendship with her. It was a deep friendship, one of true soul sisterhood. I have told Trish on several occassions how much I admired their friendship.

I have not been able to stop crying and thinking about Lisa, her family, her husband, Trish, and all of her other friends and those she touched in her too short life. Life is so short and I have squeezed my children just a little tighter today.

Thank you sweet Lisa for shining down on us...keep your star bright!

Shine on Me Tooth Fairy!

2010-08-02T07:51:00.005-04:00

I know the Tooth Fairy is only supposed to come around when you lose a tooth and need some quick cash, but I need that little fairy PRONTO!

I need her to pop on over and sprinkle some Tooth Magic Dust upon me and make all of my dental issues disappear.

Surely as a fairy she has something that will work. The Fairy Godmother had "Bippity, Boppity, Boo...", the Magic Fairies have always gone with "Abracadabra," and Mini #1's magic still seems to work with "Alecazandra, Alecazandra, Poof."

Sorry for my absence lately. "When it rains, it pours..." So much is going on that my head is spinning and then when it stops for a brief moment, I realize that I have those two precious minis that are depending on my for all the mothering and developmental needs.

The pouring rain issue of the moment is my tooth.

I am in serious pain. I went to a dentist on Friday after exruciating pain on Thursday night. I have good oral hygiene, but apparently this stems from a filling from childhood. The super duper news is that I get the choice of a root canal or extraction. YIPPEE!!!

It is my last tooth and I chose to have it extracted. I'll officially be toothless. I have much anxiety about it. I HATE, HATE, HATE all things dental related.

Pray for me during this time and send the Tooth Fairy my way with some of that magic dust. :)

Happy Monday!

Wordless Wednesday~Never too Early to Read a Classic

2010-07-28T21:51:00.002-04:00

Snapshot Saturday~Sand in your Toes

2010-07-24T07:41:00.004-04:00

Can't you just feel the hot sand in your toes?

And in the case of the minis in your hair, hands, bathing suit, eyes, etc. I wish I were at the beach right now.

Happy Saturday!

Pink & Green Thursday~Christmas in July

2010-07-22T07:10:00.000-04:00

I am dreaming of the smells, sounds, and sights of the holiday season. Go ahead, close your eyes and put yourself right there in December enjoying the hustle and bustle, holiday tunes, yummy smells of the baking cookies, the Christmas tree glimmering in the room. Ahhh...

Now open your eyes to enjoy the pictures today...

It is so easy to get in the holiday spirit and mood when it's 100 degrees outside with 1000% humidity.

In honor of Christmas in July, this week's Pink and Green Thursday is devoted to all the wonderful goodness the holiday season has to offer. Enjoy!

Come on back tomorrow. There is a Christmas in July happening over here! Happy Thursday.

Head over to the fun of Pink & Green Thursday at Pink Preppy Lilly Lover. See who joined in the fun!Let the Christmas Countdown officially begin!

Wordless Wednesday~Sleepin' On Up! New Beds!

2010-07-21T07:28:00.000-04:00

*I apologize for the poor color and picture quality. Definitely not my best work. The minis were thrilled with their new surprises!

Tuesday's Tidbit~When Life Gives You Lemons...

2010-07-20T07:50:00.002-04:00

...make lemonade.

Or in this case, make Lemon Tea Bread.

Hello? Hello? Is anyone out there? I have been absent for so long, I am not sure anyone is still with me?

"When life gives you lemons..." I think I have been given enough lemons lately to make lemonade, lemon bread, lemon meringue pie, lemon chicken, lemon sorbet, lemon tart for the entire blogging world.

Wow. I am back now and so happy to be. I have missed you all and need to know any new and exciting information asap! I look forward to catching up with everyone and hopefully getting back on a normal and happy routine. I have been thinking of you all!

For Tuesday's Tidbit, doesn't this Lemon Tea Bread look oh so yummy? The recipe is pretty easy too!

Ingredients
1/2 cup butter, softened
1 cup granulated sugar
2 large eggs
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup milk
2 tablespoons lemon rind, divided
1 cup powdered sugar
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
1 tablespoon granulated sugar

To Prepare:
1. Beat softened butter at medium speed with an electric mixer until creamy. Gradually add 1 cup granulated sugar, beating until light and fluffy. Add eggs, 1 at a time, beating just until blended after each addition.
2. Stir together flour, baking powder, and salt; add to butter mixture alternately with milk, beating at low speed just until blended, beginning and ending with flour mixture. Stir in 1 tablespoon lemon rind. Spoon batter into greased and floured 8- x 4-inch loafpan.
3. Bake at 350° for 1 hour or until a wooden pick inserted in center of bread comes out clean. Let cool in pan 10 minutes.
4.Remove bread from pan, and cool completely on a wire rack.
Stir together powdered sugar and lemon juice until smooth; spoon evenly over top of bread, letting excess drip down sides.
5. Stir together remaining 1 tablespoon lemon rind and 1 tablespoon granulated sugar; sprinkle on top of bread.

Have a great day!

{thanks to Southern Living for the picture and recipe. yum!}

Pink & Green Thursday~Caffeine Heaven

2010-07-08T07:41:00.001-04:00

It is no secret that I love those little caffeine filled coffee brings. Coffee brings me so much happiness and I truly do heart it.

Don't forget to hop over to Trish's blog to link up and check out the other Pink & Green Thursday choices. It is sure to bring a smile to your face.

Happy Thursday. Have a great day!

{Photos via here, here, and here.}

Wordless Wednesday~Summer Fun and Bribery for Teen Years

2010-07-07T07:15:00.000-04:00

Tidbit Tuesday~Tasty Blackberry Muffins

2010-07-06T08:00:00.000-04:00

After the fun last week when picking blackberries and blueberries at the farm, I went looking for a blackberry recipe.

In the Molly Lou house, we LOVE muffins and we LOVE blackberries, so the Tasty Blackberry Muffin recipe is perfection!

Ingredients
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup whole wheat flour
1 tbsp baking powder
½ teaspoon salt
2 large eggs
1 cup vanilla yogurt
½ cup spreadable cream cheese
1 cup sugar
½ cup butter, melted
1 teaspoon vanilla
12 oz package of fresh blackberries, cut in half

Directions:

Position rack in center of oven and Pre-heat to 400°F.
Grease one standard 1 dozen muffin pan and one ½ dozen pan or line with paper muffin cups.(baking spray works well)
Combine the flours, baking powder and salt in a large bowl.
In a separate bowl, whisk together eggs, yogurt, cream cheese, sugar, butter and vanilla until smooth.
Add the wet mixture to the dry and mix just until moistened. Do not over-mix, this will cause the muffins to become too dense. The batter does not need to be smooth.
Add the berries, folding just enough to disperse them, again mix as little as possible (If you are using frozen berries, coat them lightly in flour first.)
Divide the batter evenly among the muffin cups and place in the oven.
Bake until a toothpick inserted into the middle comes out clean, approx. 20 minutes.
Remove from oven and let cool for 2 to 3 minutes before removing from the pan. If not serving hot, let cool on a rack.
Serve quickly, preferably within a few hours of baking.

YUM-O! Enjoy. Happy Tuesday!

{Thanks to chowtown.wordpress.com for the recipe and muffin photo. Top photo thanks to moi}

Let Freedom Ring...

2010-07-04T08:48:00.000-04:00

Happy Independence Day! What an amazing day and time to show how proud we are to be an American! I am so thankful for all those that work so hard to protect our freedom and ensure that this is a wonderful place for my children to grow up.

Enjoy your holiday weekend! Happy 4th of July!

Snapshot Saturday~Love is in the Air

2010-07-03T07:45:00.001-04:00

6 years ago today I married the man that makes me laugh everyday, feel beautiful, is kind, and would later become a loving father.

It has been a crazy ride, but one that has been worth it. We have created this wonderful life togeher and I look forward to seeing what the rest of our lives has in store.

Happy Anniversary Mr. Molly Lou! I love you!

Summer Berry Pickin'

2010-07-02T06:50:00.000-04:00

Feel summer and get in touch with your five senses...nothing screams summer like fresh berries.

Yesterday, we ventured to a local farm that specializes in blackberries and blueberries. We picked both and enjoyed roaming through the farm. The minis were quite good at picking the berries and were having a great time until the heat finally won and they were ready for some cool air and cold drinks.

Happy Independence Day. Enjoy the weekend with your loved ones.

Pink & Green Thursday~

2010-07-01T08:01:00.001-04:00

Come along with me as we pretend the day away with a magical tea party full of adventure, magic, and fun!

I have this great desire to get girlfriends together and have a lovely tea/garden party outside. I can just picture some of my decorations. How fun would that be??
Happy Thursday! Don't forget to head over to the fabulous Trish at Pink Preppy Lilly Lover to join in on the fun and see what others are choosing for their Pink and Green Thursday!

Wordless Wednesday~Super Boy

2010-06-30T07:07:00.000-04:00

It's a Bird, It's a Plane, It's SUPER MINI #1! He has worn his cape everywhere for four days. Who needs a Bat Mobile when you have a bicycle to get you around while saving the world!

Happy Wednesday!

Tuesday's Tidbit~Ice Cream

2010-06-29T07:39:00.000-04:00

Did You Know?

National Ice Cream Day is less than three weeks away!! That's right friends, July 18 is National Ice Cream Day. Aren't you thrilled you have someone like me to show you the light on these important holidays?

Although when it is 4371 degrees outside as it is here and the humidity is at 1000% percent, I am pretty sure that every day is Ice Cream Day.

"Ice cream is happiness condensed. " ~Jessi Lane Adams

I found this Ice Cream in a Bag recipe and I can't wait to try it with the minis. I am thinking of bringing along the ingredients and trying it with my cousin's minis next week on vacation.

Ingredients and Supplies

1 sandwich size zipper bag

1 gallon size zipper bag

1/2 cup whole milk

1 T. sugar

1/2 tsp. vanilla

Ice (fill gallon bag halfway)

6 T. rock salt

Directions

1. Combine milk, sugar, and vanilla in small sandwich bag and seal tightly.

2. Add the rock salt to the large bag of ice.

3. Place the small sealed bag inside the large bag and seal.

4. Shake for about 5 minutes.

5. Open bags carefully to retrieve your single serving of homemade ice cream!

YUM! Get those ingredients and get shaking!

I think I might want to add some M&M's to my concoction. I'm sure you can never go wrong with some chocolate syrup too!

What's your tidbit to share today!

Happy Tuesday!

Why is it...

2010-06-27T15:50:00.003-04:00

...that an entire bag of M&M's can disappear and you have no idea what happened to them?

...sometimes life is just so darn hard and the saying "everything happens for a reason" doesn't cut it or maky anyone feel better?

...your children can be such complete and utter angels when their eyes are closed and quite the opposite when they are open?

...those same children can make your heart ache because you love them so much?

...you can eat the above bag of missing chocolate candies and still want more comfort food by way of chocolate heaven?

...that thinking about vacation and all that has to be done before can leave you so exhausted that you are trying to think up your next vacation for a break from the first one?

...that thinking about going outside can make me sweat?

...that I can never get enough sleep?

...that I can watch the Real Housewives of New Jersey and New York over and over again and still enjoy the drama?

Why is it.... for you today?

Have a great day.

Pink & Green Thursday~South Africa

2010-06-24T08:19:00.007-04:00

I have always been intrigued by South Africa and now that the world has its eyes on South Africa for the World Cup I want to go even more. What a diverse, beautiful, and unique place!

This week's Pink & Green Thursday hosted by the fabulous Pink Preppy Lilly Lover is all about South Africa.

They even have pink elephants (albino, but pink nonetheless.)And this is how we could travel in style while exploring the city. Although I might alter my outfit slightly and lose the teddy bear backpack, but that moped is fabulous.

Who is ready to plan that African adventure trip with me? Be sure to click over to Trish's blog to see what else is pink and green in the world and check out her always amazing photography picks. Happy Thursday!

Wordless Wednesday~I Can't Hear You

2010-06-23T06:43:00.000-04:00

This completely sums up my daughter and her attitude. Happy Wednesday.

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

2010-06-22T08:31:00.003-04:00

Just call me Alexander.

We all have them, but yesterday was definitely my terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

I had the minis out the door before 10 yesterday to do all kinds of things. I had a meeting last night that I was preparing for.

On the way to take Mini #1 to his first day of swim lessons, I had a car accident. It was my fault, an accident that isn't the biggest deal, but still one more thing to deal with.

AHHHHHHHHHHHH! Mini #2 is in a very bad mood this morning and can't quite decide if she is happy or miserable. Perhaps she should be Alexander #2.

I think I will just crawl in to bed and hope that tomorrow brings a new, not so terrible, not sp horrible, not so no good, and not so very bad day.

Weekend Life Tidbits

2010-06-21T07:18:00.002-04:00

You know the saying "Learn something new everyday."

I learn something new everyday, or at least try to, but I definitely REALIZE things every day.

Here are a few from my weekend!

*Haircuts are FABULOUS! They can be uplifting, exciting, and empowering.

*Trying to style your new 'do just as your stylist does it (especially when she tells you how EASY it will be) is not fabulous, uplifting, exciting, or empowering.

*An email from a special new friend is wonderful. Friendships really do change lives and just because you can't see someone every day doesn't mean they aren't a vital part of your life.

*Moving is not fun and sofas, beds, and dressers are always heavier than you remember them being. (We didn't move, but Molly Lou sister and her husband closed on their first house on Friday, so we helped them...CONGRATULATIONS to them!)

*I continue to use . . . WAY TOO MUCH, but I'm ok with that. Consider it my personal trademark.

*Grandparents are lovely. My children adore my mother who came to watch them as her contribution to the big move. It is so fun to watch them together and see that look of love in the mini's eyes.

*Hearing a song on the radio that you haven't heard for years can immediately transport you back to a time in your childhood or teen years.

*Chocolate chip cookies are little pieces of heaven and can cure anything!

What did you learn or realize this weekend! Happy Monday...have a great day!

Snapshot Saturday~Little Anchors

2010-06-19T07:12:00.000-04:00

On this edition of the Saturday Morning News, Mini #1 and Mini #2 will deliver all of your news and weather. Stay tuned...

And cut...

We went to a children's museum and this was one of the favorite things. I think we captured the news and weather for hours.

Happy Saturday...hope you all are having fantastic weekends.

A Little Diddy for Daddy

2010-06-18T07:28:00.000-04:00

A Father Is: There in every memory

See his love and care

Strength and hands to count on

Freely he does share

Provider, toil so faithfully

To make our dreams come true

Give strong and tender discipline

Though it is hard to do

A Father is God's chosen one

To lead the family

And point it to His will for life

Of love and harmony...

~Sue Skeen
If the new American father feels bewildered and even defeated, let him take comfort from the fact that whatever he does in any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right. ~Bill Cosby

Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys. ~Anonymous

He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it. ~Clarence Budington Kelland A father carries pictures where his money used to be. ~Author Unknown

I don't care how poor a man is; if he has family, he's rich. ~Colonel Potter

Happy Father's Day to the Best Daddy! The minis and I are so lucky to have such a wonderful, loving, funny, supportive, and fun Dad! We love you!

Happy Father's Day to all the Dads out there! Enjoy your weekend!

Pink & Green Thursday~For the Love of Ice Cream

2010-06-17T07:16:00.001-04:00

"Ice cream is exquisite. What a pity it isn't illegal." ~Voltaire

Ice cream just SCREAMS summer and when it is as HOT as it is here in the South, ice cream sounds perfect at any time!

"My advice to you is not to inquire why or whither, but just enjoy your ice cream while it's on your plate that's my philosophy." ~Thornton Wilder

Feel free to join in on the Pink & Green Thursday's started by Trish. Hop over and link up to show your findings. How I wish that I was sitting and enjoying some pink ice cream with that sweet girl!

Happy Thursday!

Wordless Wednesday~Move Over Style Icons

2010-06-16T11:43:00.003-04:00

I wonder if her fastion sense came from her mother or just an aspect of her own personality??

Tuesday's Tidbit

2010-06-15T08:48:00.002-04:00

I had this wonderful, witty post all written and then the stars aligned just the wrong way, the internet did this lovely thing, and POOF it was gone. We are down visiting Mr. and the internet connection along with other things is less than stellar.

So, I will give you a Tuesday's Tidbit of a most perfect summer giveaway and a wonderful new summer recipe. The giveaway is hostd by the amazing Trish over at Pink Preppy Lilly Lover. I truly cannot say enough good things about her and I adore her more than she knows. It ends tomorrow, so you must hop on over and check it out. For the recipe, just look at that picture, doesn't it look amazing and it's quick too...

Scallops with Sweet Cucumber and Mango Salsa

Ingredients
1 cup long-grain white rice (such as jasmine)
2 mangoes, cut into 1/2-inch pieces
2 Kirby cucumbers or 1 regular cucumber, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch pieces
1 tablespoon grated ginger
2 teaspoons fresh lime juice
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1/2 cup fresh cilantro, chopped
kosher salt and pepper
1 1/2 pounds large sea scallops

Directions
1.Cook the rice according to the package directions. (Mr. has been on the hunt for the perfect rice cooker and he found it...I don't know how we cooked rice "the old fashioned way" for so long.)

2.In a medium bowl, combine the mangoes, cucumbers, ginger, lime juice, 1 tablespoon of the oil, the cilantro, 1/2 teaspoon salt, and 1/8 teaspoon pepper; set aside.

3. Rinse the scallops and pat them dry with paper towels. Season with 1/4 teaspoon salt and 1/8 teaspoon pepper. Heat the remaining oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the scallops and cook until golden brown and the same color throughout, about 2 minutes per side.

4.Divide among individual plates and serve atop the rice with the salsa.

Hope to be around later...pray for me that I make through these episodes of being "unplugged."

Happy Tuesday. Have a great day.

Run, I mean click over to enter the giveaway at Trish's.

{Thanks to Real Simple for this yummy recipe and photo.}

Choices

2010-06-14T07:26:00.000-04:00

We always have "interesting" car conversations. The minis often argue, laugh, play games, screech, and sometimes we have some deep life conversations or Q&A from Mini #1. Sometimes all of the above can happen in a 15 min. car ride.

After a couple of days of making really sad choices and having the "talk" about expected behavior and how life is all about choices, Mini #1 (and I) were sick of the subject.

Both of us just wanted to throw our hands in the air and give up. Each of us running around, doing whatever the heck we wanted and living in a blissfull state of unsafe chaos.

Yesterday offered a NEW day and a new beginning. We were having a lovely day and while in the car on the way to Grammy's house, Mini #1 was watching a movie and his sister was asleep in the back seat.

Mini #1: Sghs loudly and very dramatically. (I wonder where he gets that from.)

Me: "What's up Buddy? Are you ok?"

Mini #1: "Yes, I am just tired and mad."

Me: "What's wrong?"

Mini #1: "I just don't like always having to think about my choices and try to make good ones all of the time. I get tired of it."

Me: "I know what you mean, but sad choices aren't good for anyone. We have rules and expectations in our family that are there to keep you safe and happy. Mommy and Daddy have to make good choices too. Sad choices can hurt people or yourself. Mommy and Daddy are your parents and our job is to teach you and make sure that you are happy, healthy and safe. We love you so much and want wants best for you. Don't you think it is more fun to make good choices? We are all happy, have good days, and a lof of times when you make good choices, you get compliments and sometimes even rewards."

Mini #1: "Yeah, but sometimes it is really hard."

Me: "I know sweet boy. You are such a smart and loving big boy. We are so proud of you and most of the time, you make great choices. One day when you are a Daddy, you will love your children so much and will always make sure that your children are making good choices and learning new things every day."

Mini #1: "I don't ever want to be a Daddy if I always have to think about my choices AND a baby's."

AMEN to that sweet boy! Another important life lesson: Life is hard and it is all about choices.

Snapshot Saturday~A Little Father and Son Bonding

2010-06-12T07:49:00.000-04:00

A little bonding on the water slide...doesn't this just scream SUMMER!!!

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

Summer Blueberry Love

2010-06-11T08:36:00.003-04:00

"What is one to say about June, the time of perfect young summer, the fulfillment of the promise of the earlier months, and with as yet no sign to remind one that its fresh young beauty will ever fade." ~Gertrude Jekyll

Summer seems to be in full swing. I made this yummy blueberry tart yesterday and there wasn't a sad taster. Happy Friday!!!

Ingredients

flour for the work surface
1 8-ounce sheet frozen puff pastry, thawed
1 large egg, beaten
1 tablespoon granulated sugar
4 ounces cream cheese, softened
1/4 cup heavy cream
1/2 teaspoon grated lemon zest
3 tablespoons confectioners' sugar
2 cups blueberries

Directions

Heat oven to 375° F. On a lightly floured surface, unfold the sheet of pastry and roll it into a 10-by-12-inch rectangle. Transfer to a parchment-lined baking sheet.

Using the tip of a knife, score a 1-inch border around the pastry without cutting all the way through. Brush the border with the egg and sprinkle with the granulated sugar. Bake until golden and puffed, 18 to 22 minutes.

Using the tip of a knife, rescore the border of the cooked pastry without cutting all the way through. Gently press down on the center of the pastry sheet to flatten it. Let cool to room temperature, 15 to 20 minutes.

Meanwhile, with an electric mixer, beat the cream cheese until smooth. Add the cream, lemon zest, and 2 tablespoons of the confectioners’ sugar and beat until smooth. Spread the cream cheese mixture evenly within the borders of the pastry.

Arrange the blueberries in a single layer over the filling and sprinkle with the remaining tablespoon of confectioners’ sugar.

*I used reduced fat cream cheese to help with the calories and cut the confectioners sugar to 2 tablespoons instead of 3. I also added extra blueberries, probably closer to three cups. I love blueberries and had a lot touse. You could also add strawberries for a patriotic look and more fruit!

{Photo courtesy of Real Simple magazine...perhaps mine didn't look quite as perfect!}

Pink and Green Thursday~Bicycles and Balloons

2010-06-10T07:18:00.001-04:00

Who doesn't love bicycles? Who doesn't smile when they see colorful balloons?

These pictures just make me so happy...I really want to be on this bicycle right now!

You know I love cupcakes and these just made me happy too, so I thought I would throw this yummy picture in too!

Head over to my sweet friend Trish's blog and join in the Pink and Green Thursday fun!

Happy Thursday. Have a great day!

{All images via here}

Wordless Wednesday~Little Volunteers

2010-06-09T07:18:00.003-04:00

How beautiful a day can be

When kindness touches it.

~George Elliston

These are the minis carrying the meals (Mini #1 carries the meal and Mini #2 carries the milk/juice and dessert bag) at my favorite stop. Remember Ms. Sarah, who stands and waves at the door until I pull away...I think she waves longer now that both minis are the deliverers.

Happy Wednesday!

A love story

2010-06-08T07:36:00.003-04:00

This is a tale about a girl and her love.

A deep love.

A love that is unwaivering, steadfast, and true.

This is a love story about a little girl and her pacifier.

Don't underestimate the power of BPA free silicone.

As you may remember, this is my darling daughter.

This is my darling daughter when she is desperately searching for her pacifier and realizes that her mother is keeping her from her one true love.

The tragedy. Two star crossed lovers forced apart. That girl would be one with the pacifier 24/7 if we allowed it. We have scaled back and she only gets it at bedtime or naptime and it resides in her bed as not to tempt her. However, when she is sick, we have caved and let her have her "boyfriend."

Mini #2 has had a lot of ear infections recently, so that means a lot of time with the pacifier. At the last doctor's appointment last week about the most recent ear issue and cold/virus thing, he commented on the need to "86" the pacifier as excessive sucking on things such as the bottle or pacifier are ear infection culprits.

What did you just say Doc????

You mean, we need to drag these two apart? Are you willing to come and facilitate that? Mr., Mini #1, and I will just check in at the Hilton for a few weeks while this breakup occurs.

The pediatrician wasn't down for that as he has three little ones at home. So, I kept the news from the sweet girl while I worked on a plan. I thought of the cute little things some friends did with their children, but it won't work with Mini #2. She is younger than some of the examples I know, so won't really get the "let's box up your most prized possession and send to baby _________. You don't need it anymore since you are a big girl. Let's share with this baby." She wouldn't really get it, but would also be one highly ticked off little girl that her mother boxed up her favorite thing right in front of her.

Option A: quit cold turkey. Pacifier? What pacifier? There isn't a pacifier nor have you ever had one...you must have dreamed that. We don't have any pacifiers for a 50 mile radius.

Option B: slowly work back down and even stop at nap, just at bedtime and gently wean ourselves from this obsessive relationship?

We have two more days of the antibiotic and I think we have decided that Option A is the best way to go. You know, best to just rip the bandaid right off.

Any suggestions, thoughts, we are taking them. Also, any prayers you can send our way as I'm sure we will need them.

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Happy Tuesday!!!

A.A.P.P.S.S.

2010-06-04T07:19:00.005-04:00

I am not stuttering about new iphone apps, I am talking about something way cooler.

What is A.A.P.P.S.S.??

The All-American, Patriotic and Preppy Summer Swap!!

Wow...I know you're thrilled.

Summer is getting in to full swing and what is something that will get us in to the mood for it all and make us oh so happy...a swap!

I love giving gifts, finding that perfect little something and shopping for someone else doesn't count as spending money, right?

Just say yes.
You know that funk I have been in and that post yesterday? Thanks for your kind words, I really wasn't trying to have myself a pity party, I was really trying to just say that we all do things in life that might not be fun, but we do them and move on.

Well, A.A.P.P.S.S. is sure to turn any frown upside down! Hope you'll join the fun and tell your friends in Blogland too.

Summer offers so many options and that is the only theme for this swap, so get creative!

Here's the deal:

1-Sign up for the swap between today and next Friday, June 11. Just leave a comment with your email address, so we can find you. I will randomly pair partners and post the partners and contact information on Monday, June 14.

2-You chat it up with your partner and find likes/dislikes and summer favorites! Spend the next few weeks shopping for your partner, spending no more than $30 (excluding shipping).

3-All packages should be mailed by Friday, June 25.

4-When you receive your package, take some pictures and be sure to post about it so we all can ooh and ahh.

Let Summer OFFICIALLY begin!

Happy weekend!

{All images via here.}

I don't know how you do it...

2010-06-03T07:27:00.001-04:00

You look so tired...

I don't envy you...

I just don't think I could do it...

How long will this go on?

Oh Bless your heart...

These are some of the phrases that I hear most often when people find out about the Molly Lou family situation. You know, the husband that lives 2.5 hours away for work and the two minis bit at home bit.

I know that I am not the only one that does this or has heard one or more of the above phrases.

And the last one is the kicker...if you are from the South then you know what "bless your heart" really means.

Some of you are military wives and do it day in and day out for months. Some of you don't have a spouse and do it all alone every single day. Some of you don't have children, but work two jobs, go to school, have a hobby turned business, and still find time to be a wife, friend, etc. Some of you have my situation, but work full-time outside of the home too. Some of you are in school and mix in various elements of the above scenarios. Some of you are doctors, working the equivalent of three full time jobs, have children, and still manage to be an amazing mother. Some of you take care of loved ones and your broad of minis in addition to cleaning, cooking, chauffering, gardening, volunteering, and trying to stay sane.

You get my point. I am so sick of hearing "you look so tired. I just don't know how you do it" and I also do realize that most of the time it is said to be comforting or supportive.

You know what. I am tired. Really tired. I am stressed. I am thin (not physically, but emotionally)...some days I am not sure how much farther I can stretch before that great big hole stretches so far that I can't hang on any longer and I fall in.

I do it because I have to.

You deal with the cards you have been dealt. My husband has a career and unfortunately for us, his current project is 2.5 hours away from where we live. My husband's job that pays our bills and allows me to stay home with our children. That job that we are thankful he has as so many people aren't lucky as we are.

We made decisions that were best for us. For our children. For our family. Do I wish that my husband was here and home every night for dinner? Do I wish I had his help for so many things?

Absolutely, but this is the decision we made and we are doing what we feel is best for our family at this point.

I have two smart, amazing, unique, and excited children that depend on me for all of their needs and wishes.

I have a home that needs to be cleaned. I have a lawn that must be mowed and someone has to clean it. I have learned that the clothes don't magically clean themselves, so someone has to do the family's laundry. We are so blessed to have family and friends in our lives and someone has to send the birthday cards and wishes. I have a business that often has to take the backseat, but one that I desperately hopes will succeed and one that has work to be done. I have children that need to eat, so someone has to go to the grocery store.

I have this need to show thanks for how blessed we are and to teach my children to be humble, productive members of society and ones that give back to their community. I volunteer for those less fortunate and help at church...it takes a village to raise a child. I also have the plague of not saying "no," so some of the stress is totally my own fault.

I do it because I don't have a choice. We all have different obstacles in our life that we deal with because that is our life.

If someone out there doesn't, then I need to take a peek in to your magic ball or you should hand over that unlimited money supply so I can hire someone to do 99% of these things.

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Rant over...sorry about that. Mini #2 is sick and that compounds some of LIFE. I think I need a mental health day to check out of life, so perhaps I can escape here and have one of these.

Jump over the the amazing Trish's blog and join in on her Pink and Green Thursday fun. Be sure to see her post from yesterday...guaranteed to give you a mental break. :)

Wordless Wednesday~Summer Lovin'

2010-06-02T06:53:00.003-04:00

With Monday marking the unofficial start of summer, I am craving all things related to summer and that patriotic pride we tend to exude during these hot months! I need summer!

Happy Wednesday!

{images via here, here, here, here}

2010-05-31T10:56:00.002-04:00

Sick kids

House full of people

Inches of rain

More thunderstorms rolling in

No sleep from sick children

These sure are the ingredients to a rockin' holiday weekend party in the Molly Lou house!

Happy Memorial Day!

Thank you to the those brave men and women that have given their lives and for those who are currently fighting and serving this country. I am honored to be an American!

Hope you all have a great day!

Snapshot Saturday~What a Difference A Year Makes

2010-05-29T07:01:00.002-04:00

First day of school-August 2009

Last dy of school-May 2010

What a difference a year makes!

Have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend! Happy Saturday!

Before I was Born...Pink & Green Thursday

2010-05-27T07:40:00.000-04:00

Lately, Mini #1 has been obsessed with older pictures of Mr. and I (there are no new pictures of us...we only take pictures of the children.) There is one in particular from our rehearsal dinner that he likes to move around the house...it drives me nuts. Yesterday, I was explaining when that was taken and talking about our wedding.

He was asking why he wasn't there and I was explaining the timeline and that we were married "a long time ago before you were born."

I pulled out the BIG photo album from our wedding and he studied it. He was pointing out various family members and friends.

We got to a picture of Mr. and I on that glorious day almost 6 years ago and he looked at me and said "Mom, you were more pretty before I was born."

I just laughed. (You know the saying, if you don't laugh, you'll cry.)

Yes, yes my sweet boy, I was more pretty all those years ago when I was young, thinner, and only had myself to worry about.

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Wish I could be sipping one of these with my best girlfriends tonight while LOVING the new Sex and the City movie! Enjoy girls!

Also, head over to the sweet and lovely Trish who I just adore from Pink Preppy Lilly Lover who started Pink and Green Thursdays and is one that I totally wish I was seeing Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha, and Miranda with tonight. She is hosting a Lilly giveaway that you must check it out! Go on over now!
Happy Thursday! Have a great day!

Wordless Wednesday~

2010-05-26T07:25:00.001-04:00

...I hope you smile

If i ever cross your mind

It was a pleasure of my life

And i cherished every time

And my whole world

It begins and ends with you...

~Zac Brown Band

Summer really is here...Happy Wednesday!

Turn that Frown Upside Down...

2010-05-24T21:23:00.003-04:00

I hahve been in the BIGGEST funk lately. I have been so overwhelmed lately that I just can't seem to keep my head above water. Ugh.

There are lots of reasons for this and one very big one is the N key on my laptop. It is stuck something fierce and I have to BANG on the "n" key to get it to go. I have a blister and callus on my finger from the trauma of it all. It really screws up emails, posts, etc. as the letter N is in a lot of words. Seriously, a lot of words. I have this rage towards the N and I will win this war. Take that nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.

I digress.

I love coming over to Blogland to help me through this funk...I am have been able "to turn that frown upside down" many times when I stop by the blogs I love.

Blogging has been such a wonderful and amazing experience for me.

One of the most amazing bloggers out there is Brittany Ann over at Living in the Moment. She is a funny, smart, passionate, inspiring and thoughtful woman who is a beautiful friend, wife, teacher, and writer. She bestowd upon me the Versatile Blogger award and I definitely had a huge upside down frown on my face! Thank you, thank you sweet Brittany.

In acceptance of this award, I must list seven things about myself:

1. I love to mow the grass. I love the way it looks and smells. I am an "instant gratification" kind of girl. I love to clean because the results are immediate and cutting the lawn is my kind of instant gratification.

2.My first job at 15 was a receptionist at a children's hair salon. I made appointments, checked out customers, painted little girls' finger nails, gave out balloons and stickers, and worked the birthday parties...all very interesting.

3. I have a tattoo on my back. If you know me in real life, this is sooooooooooo unlike me. I sometimes forget that I have it. I was in a horrific car accident the summer after I graduated high school. It is truly a miracle that I survived, so on the one year anniversary I got a butterfly tattoo to represent the new life I was given.

4. I have this unhealthy fear of dying. I can work myself in to a complete hysterical fit if I think about it too much. This is not a good thing to do last week when I was already a hormonal mess. It isn't the actual dying part, it is that my children are still so little that they would have no real memories of me.

5. I am starting to think my love for the Real Housewives gals is a tad unhealthy. Perhaps I should find a different hobby. Did you hear that there is speculation that the couple, aka the White House dinner crashers from last fall are rumored to be on the new Real Housewives of D.C.?

6. I am reading the Bible. I have never read it before. I grew up going to church, was always and still am very active in the church, but have always felt that I was "Bible not so smart" and that is putting it lightly. I get really uncomfortable when deep Biblical conversations come up, so I decided that I needed to do something about it and read the Word.

7. I hate the dentist. Really HATE it. It is an unhealthy fear. I hate the smells, the noises, and the gagging. I have a terrible gag reflex and I gag about 14 times just during a cleaning...lucky hygenist. I really need to go. Interesting, Mini #1 loves it. He asks to go back...perhaps because there are movies, treat boxes, sugar free lollipops, a clubhouse, and toys galore. Maybe I just need to start going to his dentist.

And now, for the bloggers I'd like to pass this award to:

Katie at The Perks

Katherine at The Katherine Wheel

Kim at Experiments in a Galley Kitchen

Michelle at Stuttering Shell

Whitney at Just Whitney

Erin at Ink Obsession Designs

Bevy at It's a Golden Day

Trish at Pink Preppy Lilly Lover

Emily at Emily's Going Nuts

Leigh at Leigh vs. Laundry

Jill at Jill, Inc.

Belle at Belle on Heels

Thanks again Name Twin. Have a great day!

Pool our money

2010-05-24T08:11:00.002-04:00

Lately, Mini #1 has been discussing wanting a new brother or sister for our family ("I really want to be a family of 5.")

We have just been having vague "one day" discussions and reminding him all that it would include to add another sibling to our family.

When getting out of the bath and putting the pjs on, Mini #1 says "Mom, let's just go to the hosptial and buy a baby brother or sister like we did with Mini #2."

Me: "What do you mean? We didn't buy Mini #2, she grew in Mommy's tummy until she was big enough and strong enough to come out."

Mini #1: "You have money and I have a lof of money so we can buy a new baby together. And you said we finished paying for Mini #2. Ok Mom?"

{Last week I got a random bill in the mail for $3.78 for something for Mini #2's birth. I made a comment to Mr. on how ridiculous it was, she is 19 months old and we finished paying for her over a year ago. Mini #1 must have been listening.}

Me: "Buddy, we didn't buy your sister. We had to pay the doctors and the hospital to make sure that she was healthy. She grew in my tummy, remember?"

Mini #1: "I think we should just go buy a new brother or sister."

And that is life according to a 4 year old.

Happy Monday!

Snapshot Saturday~Heaven with a Hole

2010-05-22T08:01:00.001-04:00

Anyone that thinks that heaven doesn't come in a circle, covered in chocolate, and a hole in the center obviously hasn't had Mini #2's favorite thing...

Mini chocolate doughnuts!

Happy Saturday. Hope you all are having a great weekend.

Let's Discuss...

2010-05-21T07:18:00.000-04:00

the number of times I have cried this week: about 49

the number of times I have craved chocolate and ice cream: 5783

the number of times I have caved in and had that chocolate and ice cream: 5721

the number of times I have yawned and wanted to crawl in to bed: 1821

the number of times I have changed my clothes throughout the day: 15

the number of times I have internally screamed about various things: 832

It's official.

I am having the world's worst week of PMS symptoms.

Happy Friday.

Pink & Green Thursday~Take a Walk with Me

2010-05-20T07:03:00.002-04:00

Take a walk with me...

Relaxing music will play while we walk together talking and laughing through the flowers and fields.

We will pick these to put in a gorgeous vintage vase when we get back.

Then, we can watch the sunset while eating cupcakes and icecream. :)

Aren't Thursdays fun for playing pretend?! It gives me just a few minuts to escape my day and enjoy a little "away time." I have been so busy, distracted, and exhausted lately that I just want the days to be over and keep trying to "check" one more thing off the todo list. I hate being this way... I want to be able to enjoy my children, my days, and not constantly be thinking about the next stressor or thing I must do.

Hop over to Trish's blog for more goodness...she is always such a ray of sunshine. You can't help but smile when you're there!

Happy Thursday!

{All images via here}

Wordless Wednesday~Undercover Detectives

2010-05-19T07:30:00.003-04:00

Meet "Sam" and "Ralph"~World Renowned Undercover Detectives!

This is their surprised look after I solved the mystery of their REAL identities!

No one has ever figured out who these smart crime solving detectives were...until I came along.

Happy Wednesday!

Meet Sam...

2010-05-18T08:37:00.003-04:00

Now introducing the newest Sam member of the Molly Lou family. I believe we are up to 1,234 now.

Sam, the millipede.

Mr. rescued him from a parking lot and put him in a Subway cup for the ride home. Sam has taken to his new habitat well and we are going 4 days strong.

Sas, the millipede likes to dine on cucumbers and he has taken well to the constant swaying of "Hurricane Mini #2."

Mini #1 is loving the new pet and wants to sleep with him, but has agreed that it is best for Sam to stay in his home ALL. OF. THE. TIME.

I am thinking this new member is gross, but am putting on the happy and welcoming face.

I don't know how many more "Sams" I can take.

Have a great day.

Tummy Cries

2010-05-17T06:56:00.001-04:00

Mini #1: "Mom, you don't want me to cry, right?"

Me: "Of course not. What's wrong Buddy?"

Mini #1: "You don't want me to be sad, right?"

Me: "Of course not, I never want you to be sad. Mommy always wants you to be happy. What's wrong?"

Mini #1: "My tummy is crying. It's crying hard."

Me: "Oh no. Why?"

Mini #1: "It's crying because it wants ice cream a lot and you won't let me have any. Please can I have some for my tummy."

Me: "Nice try. See if your tummy will cry for some fruit."

He always gets an "A for effort" and creativity too. My tummy cries for ice cream too. He is always trying something new. :)

Hope you all had a lovely weekend. The carnival at Mini #1's school was this weekend and that means the Silent Auction and Raffle. It is finally over!!! Hooray!

PS-I was so busy at the end of the week with the silent auction and helping get things ready that I am soooo behind on blogs. Hope to catch up soon! Have a great day!

Frandom

2010-05-14T07:01:00.002-04:00

It's Friday. It's Random. It's Frandom.

(Thanks to my good friend Whitney who coined this perfect phrase. Thank goodness she is back in blogland after taking a hiatus.)

*The silent auction at Mini #1's school is tomorrow. THANK THE GOOD LORD! I am so exhausted and my house looked like a silent auction threw up in it. There is stuff EVERYWHERE and you know by now that I am starting to twitch and have been walking around with my little brown bag to aid in the breathing. I am going to spend most of the day setting up at the school and attempting to entertain my children at the same time...Awesome, I know. Say a little prayer for me and do a "No Rain" dance too.

*Andrew Belle was the music on Grey's Anatomy last night and it was fantastic. I have downloaded a few of his tunes. Speaking of Grey's Anatomy, who saw the previews for next week...a nail biter for sure. Don't even get me started on the mental breakdown I had while watching Private Practice. Perhaps a bit of it was due to the fatigue I described from the first frandom point.

*Mini #1's best friend, you know his future wife and pretty much joined at the hip other half, Abby was over yesterday. They were upstairs playing nicely and then came down "dressed up."

Interesting isn't it. Yes, that's my boy and we are SO proud! When I went upstairs, I was greeted by Mini #2's clothes that were previously hanging in her armoire. ALL. OVER. THE. FLOOR. Seriously, all of them. Cute picture though. :)

*My sweet mom is coming up this weekend and the Mini's are thrilled. Mini #1 made up a "Grammy" song. Stay tuned...sure to be on the Billboard charts asap!

Have a wonderful weekend.

Pink and Green Thursdays~Little Pink Houses For You and Me

2010-05-13T07:18:00.000-04:00

Oh but ain't that America for you and me.Ain't that America something to see babyAin't that America home of the freeLittle pinks houses for you and me. I'm thinking of changing up the color scheme of Molly Lou Manor. Thoughts on some of these options? Think I could get Mr. on board? These photos are from all over...Guatemala, Savannah, New York, Isle of Palms, Australia, Nevada! Pink really does bring the world together!

Be sure to visit Trish who started the Pink and Green Thursday fun. Even if you don't love pink (I'm talking about you Gina), you'll enjoy the amazing photographs she posts!

Happy Thursday!

Wordless Wednesday~Children's Lit

2010-05-12T07:13:00.000-04:00

Can you guess which children's book the Minis are reading?
We sure do love, love, love The Very Hungry Caterpillar in our home!
Happy Wednesday!