tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post99053216717865728..comments2023-11-05T06:03:27.466-05:00Comments on Molly Lou Gifts: What Does "Don't Tell Anyone" REALLY Mean?Under this Umbrellahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04811840607111123248noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-69332703726521179462009-11-19T01:19:27.161-05:002009-11-19T01:19:27.161-05:00I'm sorry you feel hurt by this! There are tw...I'm sorry you feel hurt by this! There are two ways to look at it... 1. As a girl, I tell The Boyfriend pretty much everything -- he's my exception to the "don't tell anyone" rule.<br />2. Boys don't think like us and maybe he just really didn't think to tell you. I know that might sound bad, but you know guys are from another place.<br /><br />I'm sorry you felt hurt and I'm sure Mr. MLG didn't mean to make you feel that way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-43317356877014451112009-11-18T09:57:40.193-05:002009-11-18T09:57:40.193-05:00We should DEFINITELY be friends! Thanks so much fo...We should DEFINITELY be friends! Thanks so much for your awesome suggestion about the B&B, I really hadn't even considered it but I looove that idea! It might just be a winner for us.<br /><br />About the secret thing... hmmm. I tell my husband everything and I assume people know this when they say "don't tell anyone." But now that you mention it, I'm not sure what my husband would do if someone told him not to tell. I'll have to ask him! I don't know the whole situation (the secret and other details) but I think your husband probably really thought he wasn't supposed to tell ANYONE. I'm sure if you explain your reasoning about you being able to help and how it put you in an awkward situation with his sister, he'll agree and will probably tell you these things in the future. I can see why you'd be annoyed with the whole thing. I hope things work out for his brother!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181894081615098424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-23705174694116240512009-11-18T06:45:16.023-05:002009-11-18T06:45:16.023-05:00I would tell my husband. Not only that, I think i...I would tell my husband. Not only that, I think it's wrong for someone to ask or expect you to keep something from your spouse/significant other.Putting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-67844439173129051952009-11-17T12:35:56.619-05:002009-11-17T12:35:56.619-05:00"Don't tell anyone" means "exce..."Don't tell anyone" means "except your significant other, of course." I even get offended when B emphasizes not to tell anyone and that he shouldn't be telling me! Of course you should tell your significant other. Grrr. I'm offended for you, sister! ;)Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16377594606599796121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-14068320985509678732009-11-17T12:19:30.425-05:002009-11-17T12:19:30.425-05:00I totally agree with you...when anyone says "...I totally agree with you...when anyone says "don't tell anyone" I pretty much make a beeline for my husband to share the news. I always thought that significant others are above the "don't tell anyone," right?Shainahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12217445439159772301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-80009069242153062822009-11-17T10:39:37.055-05:002009-11-17T10:39:37.055-05:00Well, I'm not married but I thought spouses we...Well, I'm not married but I thought spouses were supposed to tell each other everything. I know my parents have always done that.Whitneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964719948987285048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-73435756514487716852009-11-17T10:27:05.173-05:002009-11-17T10:27:05.173-05:00I think its kind of understood that "don'...I think its kind of understood that "don't tell" means don't everyone but your other half, who you are married to and really don't keep secrets from! I'd be mad, too.Brittany Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04316417410513395767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-54341970989134615372009-11-17T10:26:42.257-05:002009-11-17T10:26:42.257-05:00Hmmm...that is a good question. I think it depends...Hmmm...that is a good question. I think it depends on the situation, but in this case it sounds like something needed to be said. I think I would feel the same way you do had I not known. Hopefully everything gets resolved for Mr. Molly Lou's brother!Ink Obsession Designshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09798197535870683414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-23234892931050770952009-11-17T09:28:03.040-05:002009-11-17T09:28:03.040-05:00I tell my husband pretty much everything. I say pr...I tell my husband pretty much everything. I say pretty much because I'm sure I don't tell him what I eat for lunch every day, etc. ;) But when it comes to things like this, we always know. We realize not everyone is like this, though. His mom caught on and just talks to us like we always know everything about each other... I enjoy observing how she talks to her other daughter-in-law, though. It's always informative and she assumes said DIL knows nothing about the current conversation (which is usually true).<br />Okay, did any of that make sense? WE tell each other everything, but not everyone does. Guess it really is a personal preference. <br /><br />And gosh, what excellent taste your winner has. LOVE those cards. :)Joanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01969982562780454427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4930609908423322021.post-13874084829368333842009-11-17T09:18:40.169-05:002009-11-17T09:18:40.169-05:00I would tell my husband. I have to agree with you...I would tell my husband. I have to agree with you. It is hard to say since I don't know the exact situation but I typically tell my husband everything. And I am just not that good at keeping secrets anyways!Gleatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15773353532012642583noreply@blogger.com